For me, getting spanked is about giving yourself up. Face down, naked, exposed and opening yourself up to your ass being used for anything. It's kinda hot.
to samesexhetDom2 :You surely know what a submissive should be like, and you dominate him until you turn him into a true submissive. There's no doubt that the proper use of a belt, and even more so the whip, can subdue even the most rebellious. Even more so if the flogger is a young man and the other is an older man. From that moment on, when you're dominated, the feeling that you belong to that man arises.